Did You Know?
Gifting a knife, or scissor for any occasion is
considered bad luck, as it is believed that gifting sharp objects causes
relations with the recipient to 'cut' into half. Often, on receiving
sharp objects, the gift recipient returns the person a coin to avert ill
luck.
You have to admit that giving strange gifts to your friends as
a prank is always the high-point of a birthday celebration. Sometimes -
rather most of the time, people don't know where to draw a line and
where the seemingly funny gifts turn into plain awkward ones. Now, it
goes without saying that gift items that are considered superstitious in
various cultures should be avoided at all costs; but what about those
which you should not even think of buying?
The following article
includes such gift ideas that you should be running away from, no matter
how good they sound in your head. So, let's make sure you don't fall
into trouble and scratch the following items off your list - forever.
Note:
The gifts can and will vary depending on your friendship and how well
you know him/her. The ones included in the article are solely from the
author's point of view.
10 Gifts You Should Never Give a Guy
Stuffed Toys and Flowers
Stuffed toys? Seriously? Who would, in his/her sane mind, even
think of giving a guy a soft, furry animal, that's not even alive! As if
you have not embarrassed yourself enough, you decide to couple it with
flowers; you are definitely digging your own grave, my friend.
Jewelry
Who said a tacky piece of jewelry for your friend is a terrible
idea? Umm... everybody! Not only is this one of the most inappropriate
gifts, it almost always never looks good on men. So, unless he has asked
for it, please do stay away from all such items.
Okay, so both of you are movie buffs, and you even watch certain
rom-coms together, but that is in no way a hint that he secretly desires
for an entire DVD collection of the same. He may have certain favorites
that he does not mind accepting publicly, but do not expect a mushy
reaction and a warm hug if you still go ahead and gift him one.
Outdated Gadgets
Girly movies out; gadgets in? Seems like a good choice - only if
you yourself are tech-savvy. Giving your friend a Gingerbread version of
an Android phone (when its Ice Cream Sandwich and Jelly Bean versions
are already doing the rounds in the market) is a terrible gift; worse,
if the gadget is clearly an old product.
There is nothing wrong in making a scrapbook with all your memories
decorated in it. It's just that it's not a "guy thing." He will not be
able to appreciate your efforts; don't blame him, as he's just not
programmed for all this. Moreover, a guy gifting his friend a scrapbook
is downright weird.
Matching Items
Some people love to flaunt their friendship and want the world to
know their special bond. It is okay (only sometimes) to do this, but
buying similar tees with "Friends Forever" printed on them, or
"Friendship Bracelets" where each has the same one, will only compel
your friend to go underground.
Feminine Home Decor
Home decor items as a whole might also seem as a not-so-bad idea,
but certain items, like the lamps in the above picture are just too
feminine for any guy's taste. Agreed that items like these are very
useful, but those having a feminine touch to them will surely lie in the
dust. Moreover, such gifts are more suitable for the entire family than
that person himself.
Strange Showpieces
Gifting something that is useful to that person is always a better
idea than something that will just sit there and stare at you. Yet,
there are a bunch of overenthusiastic people, who go out of their way to
buy such showpieces that help little in creating an impression that you
know him well. Frankly, they are a thing of the past.
Bright-colored Outfits
If you really don't intend to sabotage your friendship, please do
him and yourself a favor by not giving him something that would hamper
his vision in any way. Do not make a futile attempt at changing his
wardrobe by overpowering him with your taste of clothes that are nowhere
close to his sense of style, and which may not even fit him.
Photo Frames
Photographs of yourself, personalized mugs with only your pictures,
and the like qualify as a gift only if you top the list of the most
self-absorbed and vain person anyone has ever met. As much as he likes
you as a friend, I am pretty sure he would not want to see you all the
time.
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